Chrissy & Mr. Jones Recap

When we last seen Chrissy Lampkin and Jim Jones, Chrissy was riding high off of the engagement ring she received from her beau of eight years.

The way she stressed throughout the season on Love & Hip Hop, you would have assumed she would have had one of many fittings with Vera Wang.

Well with this series opener we are seen a very unsure Chrissy. Her and Jim are packing to move out of their home in six days. Problem is they haven't found a house to move to nor have they began to pack. So they are truly packing to move nowhere lol!

Chrissy seems to be trying to find where she fits in. She wants her independence but she also wants that security knowing Jimmy will do the right thing on his own, without coaching or guidance.

Jim's attitude is VERY laid back and non chalant and for that it stresses Chrissy. This episode was more arguing than loving and it displayed why Chrissy wouldn't be so eager to walk down the aisle.

Mama Jones also made an appearance providing her comedic relief along with plots and plan for her next hustle.

Her drama on this episode is that she doesn't think she owes the producer of her song "Psychotic Bitch" any money since it was her idea and the producer was a family friend, whereas he thinks otherwise and when he requests the money Mama Jones gets angry equipped with a baseball bat and kicks him out of her home.  One thing for sure is Mama don't take no junk!

I enjoyed the show and it was interesting to see Chrissy in such a vulnerable light but still a cute show so I will be tuning in to yet another reality show!

Smooches

Iyanla, Fix My Life

I have ALWAYS been a fan of Iyanla Vanzant so me tuning in for her series premiere on Oprah's OWN network was a no brainer because I knew she was going to keep it 100 and she would be expecting the same for her guest.

The series opens with her interviewing reality star, Evelyn Lozada and this would be a two part series where Iyanla spoke with Evelyn four weeks after her wedding to Chad Johnson and two weeks after the infamous head butt incident.

I can't lie I was really skeptical about this because I felt it was a publicity stunt BUT after watching the first part I felt otherwise.

Iyanla made Evelyn take responsibility for her inappropriate behavior towards her cast mates that was explained to her why she was a lose cannon and furthermore how she never stood a chance in having a healthy marriage.

Iyanla attempted to break Evelyn down to make her take FULL responsibility for all of her actions. I will say Evelyn was half way there but she was still holding back even AFTER revealing she's still harboring the anger and rejection resulting in her estranged relationship with her father.

Personally if she would have came in a tee shirt and sweats I would have truly been able to sympathize with her but she came looking like a million bucks and to all the battered woman in the world that was a bit insulting.

The million dollar question was why now after finding out Chad had been allegedly cheating and had been abusive in the past that enough was enough and the only answer Evelyn could give was that now there was a scar it almost seem like her ego/pride was hurt more than her forehead.

Ultimately, this interview is a step in the right direction but the only way to be cured in Evelyn's case is to confront her inner demons and accept responsibility FULLY or this will be a pattern to be repeated because she's made a pattern of being able to be brought; a lifestyle that she almost signed a deal with the devil to keep. I wish Evelyn well and hopes she continues her therapy to finally obtain self love and peace of mind.

Kisha Green is a publisher who has a passion for writing and sharing her witty personality with many through social media. For more info about Kisha, visit her websitewww.divabooksinconline.com and you can also follow her on Twitter @KishaGreen

Girlfriend Confidential LA

Girlfriend Confidential LA

I just started watching the show but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that Eva is the star of the show but not in a egotistical way. It is interesting to see four female friends show vulnerability while being followed by a camera. I think the formula for the show will work because of the diverse personalities. This episode was about Eva seeking work on a sitcom but battling with what hair color is more marketable for her, the platinum blonde we have all grove to love or basic brown and Dramatic Dennyce  or DD <-- my nickname for her lol!

Another  notable mention was the the party at Terrell Owens ( nice to see him getting a check since his financial woes have been the topic of discussion when mentioned) who was a guest on this episode because Nikki decorated his LA apartment. Well Dennyce and him have some unfinished business that definitely needed closure. Clearly they had a falling out and ended the friendship but Dennyce just never got the memo. She was embarrassing to say the least but it was truly lack of better judgement for either Nikki or Eva thinking any good would come of Dennyce attending when she clearly said she didn't wanna be there. I will add Dennyce brings the drama. She doesn't bite her tongue and in some cases this is a gift and a curse ESPECIALLY in the entertainment industry.

I truly enjoyed watching  but i need to know more about Nikki, Dennyce and Kelly but nonetheless  Kisha will be tuning in next Monday so you know I will be writing about the reality tv shenanigans that will be taking place with the girls.

Kisha Green is a publisher who has a passion for writing and sharing her witty personality with many through social media. For more info about Kisha, visit her websitewww.divabooksinconline.com and you can also follow her on Twitter @KishaGreen

What I've learned...

Every problem, every heartache, every adversity, every failure, carries with it the equal opportunity for an even greater benefit. To begin to overcome obstacles, you need to rid yourself of indecision, doubt, and fear. That requires courage. How do you develop the necessary courage? The fear of failure is nothing more than a state of mind. Your state of mind is subject to change, control, and direction. Ask yourself, “What great things would I dare to dream and would I undertake if I knew I could not and would not fail?”-Eric Giglione,Life Coach

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