How many times have you made excuses for someone else's toxic behavior? Whether it was a significant other or a friend
Too many times we as people allow the okey doke to occur. We should be demanding respect POINT BLANK PERIOD!
The cardinal rule is to treat people exactly how you want to be treated but for reasons unknown people cant seem to adhere.
A person can only treat you bad if YOU allow it. I've had my share of unhealthy ones family included, but if you don't set boundaries, then you cannot possibly expect to be treated well.
People come into our lives for a reason, season or a lifetime. Problem is we tend to try to keep seasonal people around for a lifetime and vice versa.
As humans we are not always going to get along with one another. If problems arise as an adult both parties should attempt to find resolve, but if resolve cannot be obtained and you know you have tried it is ok to close the door and keep it moving. That's called closure and is a part of life.
Time waits for no one and life is too short for it to be filled with people not adding on to your existence but instead taking away. So rid yourself of toxic people.
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